Please people give me your advice I need help with a relationship?

Ok, i have been dating a man for almost 6 months. He is 37 and i am 30. I don't have any children and he has three my different mothers. And he is still living with his Ex girlfriend. He says that they are completely over but why is he still there? He swears up and down that they are only roomates now, i did cutt it off a couple of days ago but i am missing him. What should i do?Please people give me your advice I need help with a relationship?
Stay far away until he's out on his own. Then think about it for a long time. Then stay far away.





This guy's an as*holePlease people give me your advice I need help with a relationship?
I think you should re-read what you wrote here and try reading it like someone else wrote it instead.......look at this as another person. If a light doesn't come on after you've done that then this is my answer for you.





You already have doubts about this man. He has 3 children all by different women. I personally wouldn't believe that there isn't anything going on between the two of them. BUT just in case he is telling you the truth and there isn't anything going on between them, then guess what I think this guys a friggin looser. What he can't find his own place to live so he stays with he x.


And the fact that he has 3 damn kids, how much child support is he paying out. And if he isn't, someday they'll catch up to him and then what, he won't have a pot to piss in because he has to support all those kids.


Honey, your 37.......I'm older than you, 3 years ago I ended an almost 13 year relationship with a guy that I wasn't married too and I haven't been looking since. And yeah know what I'd rather be alone than to take on this guy that your talking about.


You deserve much better than this!! Really
well does he have a child with his ex that may be one reason he is still there. Also you have to think maybe it is easier for him to have someone to split bills with. It is a matter of if you trust what he is saying is true. After all if it is would a relationship not be worth a little effort. I would say that you should call him and invite him out to coffee of dinner and let him know how you fell and tell him about the concerns you have. If he does not know what is bothering you how will they both of you be able to work it out.
talk to his ex and see if he is really telling the truth and then you should go back to him if she said he only thinks about you.
I doubt he is totally honest..besides why does he ahve so many children and all with different ladies...I think he is a player..run unless you want his fourth
I think you should befriend his X and see what's going on....


but why is he living with his ex gf or not you??


i think that is prob saying something and maybe u should just try to find another guy?
Don't go back to him. You deserve better.
To get the details and the real deal...talk to the X I am sure that she will tell you exactly what is going on,.
ask to move in wit u

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