Tuesday, December 22, 2009

I need advice on my relationship?

I'm engaged to be married to a wonderful guy and he really can provide me with everything. His family is rich and he's in law school plus he's really romantic and in love with me but the problem is I found out that I still love my ex who recently divorced from his wife. Our relationship didn't end pretty at least to me it didn't because we had broken up before and then when we were broken up he started dating someone else. Then he dumped her for me but then she found out she was pregnant so he left me again and married her. (She's the wife he's divorcing now) I was devasted but now he wants me back and says he never stopped loving me and the truth is I never stopped loving him either. In a way I want to marry the other guy because he can provide well for me and I'm not sure if my ex can since he doesn't have the best job and will be paying child support soon (And that does matter rather anyone wants to admit it or not) What should I do?I need advice on my relationship?
You need to sit down and really figure out if its really love for your ex or just a mere desire of yours. Sometimes we have that 'I want him back' feeling that we think its love but its not. On the other hand, if you are completely sure that you still love your ex, then I would not get married with this other person. Did you get engaged with him because you were in love or because you wanted to secure your future? Money makes everything easy, but it doesn't make you happy. Being with the person I love is something that I wouldn't give up for anything...I need advice on my relationship?
in all honesty, If he did it to you once... what makes you think he won't do it to you again??? Being with someone who fathers a child by someone else is NOT easy (done it!), not impossible, but not easy! and you have to think about your future, there is potential for more problems, fighting about money, wanting more, and also the fact that you may regret giving up someone so good for you, for a man that can't offer you anything you need in life.... Love is an amazing and powerful emotion, but sometimes.... Love just isn't enough. good luck!
you'll end up getting divorced later on, so it's really not worth it. I know the thought of being provided for sounds nice, but it won't be a great married life if you don't have true love. I'm not saying you should get back with your ex. Afterall, you guys broke up for a reason, but I don't think you're ready for marriage.
i think that you should marry this guy from law school. i think in the end you will be extremely happy. who is to say your ex won't do that same thing to you again. you have a good man that obviously really loves you, he has a good job and i think you'd be crazy to leave him.
so you marry the other guy and you dont love him and want his money and you hook up with the ex who has a child and will be forever fighting with his ex and probably not keep in the style which you want you really have a problem I hope you think about this more
It's not about money. You need to be with the one you truly love.

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