Relationship questions mens advice prefered?

So I finally stood up to my fmaily today and explained that they are a huge reason why I am always depressed and they need to stop telling me if i move awya that im killing my grandfather and vthat they need to stop emotionally guilting me. My nanny helped me and was wonderful.


I am going to start seeing a counsellor to help with my anxiety and worrying ect.


But when ever i tlak about the future with my bf he says dont worry about it now we'll talk when the time comes. like this weekend im gonna ask him again because he lives 3 hours away and i am not moving closer until he agrees to move in with me. is that too much to put on a guy? dated for 2.5 years now long distance for the past 4 months. i suggested i move to him and we get a place for next summer. he always says ya sounds good, but how do i get him to realize im not joking around its next summer or im walking. i dont wanna say that though cause then he might just say fine go. i want us to work on things and better ourselves. but i need to start going somewhere in my life, i need to see him more then once a week.


Am overreacting or not?


Gguy advice please


And please dont say hes cheating i know he isnt hasnt and wont


My bf is very anti social, likes ot be alone, doenst talk much, doesnt like tv or phones. hes always been like that. ive come to terms with it.Relationship questions mens advice prefered?
I think you both want different things.


You keep telling him and he keeps brushing it aside.


It's not a happy relationship. Don't be afraid to let go of it.