When does dating become a relationship? Would really like your advice?

I've been dating this guy for 4 months now. He knows I like him and I know he likes me. When we first started dating he was kind of talking to this girl that lives 2-3 hrs away.When I started having more feelings for him and he started asking for more from me (such as time) I asked him where in his eyes did I stand with him and where did he stand with this girl. He told me he really likes me and that he could see having a relationship with me. As for that girl he said he knew it wouldnt work out because of the distance.Well we've gotten a bit physical since then and we try to see e.other every weekend. I dont know if he still talks to her, I mean I never asked him to stop.Honestly I think he is still talking to her over the phone. Confused I went out on a date with someone had a good time but soon as I got home I felt bad. We havent declared being exclusive and being in our 20s feels kinda funny waiting to be asked will you be my bf/gf. So how do you know when its a relationship?When does dating become a relationship? Would really like your advice?
Communication is the key word here. Although you guys seem to be enjoying each other, that conversation about you guys being exclusive hasn't come up. Him saying that he could see being in a relationship with you is not the same as actually asking if you want to be in one. If thats what you want from him, then you need to tell him. ANd you should ask if he's still associating with that other girl, you have the right to know, especially if you guys are going to have something. I would ask him that first, if he's still talking to 'ol girl, then go onto the next questions that you have. Being honest about your wants and expectations now saves for disappointment and confusion later. Good luck!When does dating become a relationship? Would really like your advice?
I would say about now. You need to watch out just because he says he not gonna talk to her don't mean he gonna stop. I know she still gonna call him and what he suppose to say..Don't call me anymore I have a girlfriend. That what we want them to say. But they don't
t sounds funny, but based on my record, I've never just dated someone...For me, I've always dated guys whom I was friends with first, so when we would mutually discover romantic feelings, it seemed right to call it a formal relationship, because at that point we both knew a lot about each other.


I can understand your wanting to get a clearer definition, because it definitely sounds to me like you want it to be a formal relationship...I think it's worth asking him, because if you feel you are ready for a formal relationship then you should feel comfortable to ask a question like that. There is never harm in being open and honest with someone.


Best of luck!
when you start to communicate with each other.
Seems like you both need to talk and communicate whether this relationship is exclusive. Let him know that you are dating other men, but you cannot see a future with them. If you are both mature, then this shouldn't be an issue. However if you want this relationship with him, you should really express this to him in words. Men are not mind readers, so we need to tell them what we want. If he wants to see you exclusively, then you are in a relationship, but if not...then maybe it is the wrong time or person for you. Good luck!
Its a relationship when you are both comitted to each other. No secrets, open with each other and are happy being with that one person.
Easy, just ask him. Than you'll know.
i would say when he is only seeing you, if so cool then you


no were you stand,see other people until he is ready for


what you want, if you want sex cool if u want a date to the


movies cool, but don't let him play u by saying yall are just


friends.do not share because he would not want to share


u if he really cares about you and your feelings,,,
asl this boy if he feels the same way. then, ask him if you want to ';go steady'; and if he sa ys yes, then it is a relationship.
i thought it was always considered a relationship when you start seeing someone
well its a relationship when you are only with each other.


talk to him about it, if you both want to become bf/gf. dating is just going out. relationship is becoming one.


i guess dating only becomes a relationship if you both want to to be.
You ask and agree on the parameters. Takes the guess work right out of it. Do you want to date just him? Does he want to date just you? Talk it out and find out. Beats the drama and confusion. Sorry, no magical wand for this one.
It becomes a relationship when you both agree to only see one another exclusively,
Hello,


It becomes a relationship when you decide it does. Ask him what he wants out of the relationship and tell him what you want out of it. I had a friends with benefits sort of speak for about four months it was emotional and physical, we shared emotions and family problems with one another.


But we didn't get involved in eachothers families, there was no longterm commitment and no plans were made.
dating IS a relationship. just like friends is a relationship, and enemies is a relationship.





look up the definition of relationship, you'll see it covers pretty much any way that two or more people ';relate'; to each other.
When someone in the relationship speaks of some form of a commitment.