Pregnancy, Relationship trouble, need advice?

So I'm 7 weeks pregnant and I'm very happy. I have two boys already ages 11 and 3. My SO however is very unhappy about this pregnancy. He wants me to have an abortion. We have been together for about6 years but have a very rocky relationship because I have a lot of trust issues due to a previous relationship. He says that we shouldn't have this baby because our relationship is in trouble, we can hardly make ends meet now, I dont have insurance, and he just doesn't want anymore kids. I do not want to have an abortion and I will not have one. I've been there done that and I've regretted it everyday. I highly doubt he will leave me because of my choice however, I'm afraid that this is just going to push him further away. I dont even feel comfortable acting happy around him because he is so unhappy about this pregnancy. I'm confussed, sad, and feeling very alone. With my last pregnancy he was so happy he couldn't stop smiling.Pregnancy, Relationship trouble, need advice?
go with your heart, do not let someone force you into anything that you are not comfortable with. things will work out in the end.Pregnancy, Relationship trouble, need advice?
All you can do is be yourself. Birth is a beautiful thing and kids are the best. Sit your SO down and tell him you will not get an abortion. Tell him you want your relationship to get better and maybe your relationship can be ';re-born'; with the baby. Ask him to go to counseling with you to work out your problems. Then work on a budget to save money and ask friends and relatives to save their baby stuff for you so you won't have to spend a lot when the baby comes.





Good luck and God Bless.
Have you tried counseling? Some churches offer it for free.... I also think that if he didn't want another child, he should have made sure the proper precautions were taken. However, if you are considering abortion, please think about adoption. Lots of people out there want babies that can't have them and it would be a shame to waste such a precious life. Good luck with your decision and your relationship!
After the baby is born, his mind might change. If an innocent child is going to push him away, it is because he wants to be pushed away. If he didn't want any more kids, he should have wrapped himself up. If you are happy about it, shout it at the top of your lungs. Don't let yourself be down because he is being a jerk. If you need someone to talk to, I am here..just IM me. I am 31 weeks prego.....
try finding something you can do online to make extra cash. i would recommend projectpayday.com or try finding something your husband could do thats not too heavy for his schedule, get insurance and try to make your husband think positive about this. and BE happy about this around him. being unhappy isn't going to make things any better. best wishes!!!!!!!
If Yall Cant Make It With Another Baby..Plz Dont Consider Abortion!![[How Culd U Kill Ur Own Child?]]..Try Considering Adoption.Its Not The Baby's Fault So Dont Kill It..ADOPTION!