i dont know what to do i am for sure that i am not obsessed with her and i genuinely loved her and i still do. we had plans for the future and had everything planed out i miss her so much. i thought in time my feelings would go away and i wouldnt be as sad but it is the total opposite every night i dream about her no matter what unless i get drunk and pass out. i dream either that we are together and happy or i am trying to get her back. i dont know how to move forward with my life this has messed me up so bad i have failed out of college and i know it is because of her cause every since her i can hardly care about anything. my friends cant help me because none of them have ever actually been in love. moving on isnt just as easy as saying it.
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same thing happened to me but im a girl wish i had advice but i dont sorry did you talk to her well im sure you did but im sorry good luckRelationship trouble and advice please help..?
your right its not but you have to try to move on cause the more you think about her the more its going to hurt you its hard i know but at least try your best good luck
First, it doesn't matter how old you are. When love ends it is incredibly hard - no matter what the circumstance. You need to ask yourself why you love her, and not just the surface stuff. You need then to be careful not to appear too needy. Gals dislike needy. Guys do too and so the best way to move forward is to get on with what you are interested in and when she sees that you are not pining for her, it may trigger her to think - hey what is going on with him? I am sorry that you get drunk and pass out - I have been there. Eventually, you have to deal with your situation, and the booze just makes you look desperate. Let that go. You can't blame her for your bad choices. Your failing does not serve you in any way. So honey - pick yourself up and think about what makes you the best reflection of yourself you can be and you will likely become attractive to her again. And if she doesn't return you are still the best reflection of yourself you can be. I wish you love and happiness in all of your choices.
I've been there before. Having the one person you truely love break your heart. I was 18 and had fallen in love and got my heart broken really bad. I felt just how you do. But after awhile you meet new guys and in your case new girls and you will see that you can move past that and find you someone else. You are young and there are lots of girls out there and the one for you is also out there. I know you probably hear that all the time and are probably sick of hearing it, but to be honest its the truth. I thought myself, yea right like Im going to find someone new who loves me and who I love just as much. But after a few relationships I finally found that one and have been married for almost 3 years now. Have fun while you can. There are lots of fishes in the sea for you. Trust me on that. Keep your head up! It will get better with time. Oh and one more thing. Drinking wont take the pain away. It might take it away for the moment but as soon as your sober again it will be right back again.
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