My friend always ask me on advice about her relationship, but gets upset with my answers, what should i do?

I have this friend and her and her boyfriend always are having problems. First its her hearing about him with other girls then to him not liking whats she wears or how she wears her hair. Recently she got a new haircut and i think its really cute but she tells me that he doesnt like it and because he doesnt like it he stopped answering her phone calls. I personally dont think that she should be with him. He is always hurtin her feelings and breaking her spirits. He tells her that she should lose weight because she's fat and he is just not a nice guy. But when i tell her that i think that she should break up with him or just take some time for herself she gets upset. What should i do ?My friend always ask me on advice about her relationship, but gets upset with my answers, what should i do?
Next time just tell her that you don't want to get in the middle of it. Don't waste your time giving advice to someone that isn't going to bother taking that advice.My friend always ask me on advice about her relationship, but gets upset with my answers, what should i do?
Stop giving your advice. If your being honest with her. She needs to know that advice doesnt mean do what you say its your opinion. And if she doesnt like it she shouldnt ask.
If she wont listen to you she has got to learn the hard way. Then later on you will say to her ';I told you so'; and she will then wish she listened to you the first time.
This is something I have learned along time ago, girls never really want advise when it comes to there relationships!!!!! I have lost 2 good friends over trying to help them drop there boyfriends that treated them like crap. What I do now is just listen, let them vent, comfort them, and just try and help them pick up the pieces when things finally go down. I am not saying that all people are like this but I have had a lot situations go bad from trying to help a friend out, it is like they always choose the guy.
Tell her, I am not going to get involved in you personal life because every time I do you get mad so it is better if I stay out of it.
He sounds like an *** and she needs to get rid of him fast, he's a controling man, who could turn out abusive. Unfortunately she's in love and doesn't want to see the bad side so she doesn't want to hear what you have to say and will be mad at you for telling her the truth. What you need to do is stay away from this period, if she asks you for advice just tell her you can't give her advice because she doesn't like what you have to say even though it's true. She will find out her own way what an *** he is and will then hopefully get rid of him, unfortunately this could take years.
Tell her that although you love her to death, you cannot help her when it comes to her boyfriend, because you do not agree with or care for the way that he treats her, she could do better. Tell her that you are more then willing to listen to her and lend her a shoulder, but when it comes to giving advice, you just can't.


Hang in there, sooner or later she will get tired of it herself and move on. Although it is most likely that she will find someone alot like this one, because it seems like she has very low self esteem. Until she starts caring about herself, she is going to have a hard time finding a guy to care about her.
THAT IS WHY U ARE HER FRIEND. TO TELL HER THINGS LIKE THAT SO SHE IS NOT SUPPOSE TO GET MAD AT U. TELL HER, BUT TELL HER THAT THIS WILL BE THE LAST TIME U SAY ANYTHING TO HER ABOUT HER PERSONAL LIFE. BE SERIOUS WITH HER AND MEAN WHAT U SAY. TAKE HER SOMEWHERE WHERE SHE WILL BE AT EASE SO TALKING TO HER CAN BE A LITTLE EASIER FOR U. TELL HER WHAT U FEEL AND THAT U DO NOT WANT TO SEE HER HURT BECAUSE IT HURTS U TOO. SHE MAY SEE THAT HER BOYFRIEND IS NO GOOD FOR HER, BUT SHE HATES TO ADMIT IT. DO TELL HER THAT U WILL AWAYS BE HER FRIEND AND THAT U LOVE HER A LOT. GOOD LUCK.
Explain to your friend that if she truly wants your opinion, then she needs to be open or listen whole heartedly to whatever you have to say with out getting upset. If she still gets upset, you then need to express to her that from now on you will only listen and not advice. Hope this helps, she is lucky to have a friend who cares so much about her, maybe she realize that her relationship with you is more important than the crappy one she has with her boyfriend.
tell her not to ask you if she doesnt want to hear how you really feel. Your only telling her the truth bc your a good friend. telling her what she wants to hear is not gonna do either of you any good.
this one's pretty tough. many people want advice but when it's not the advice that they want...then they can get mad. it's also probably a tough situation because she's your friend. the only thing i can think of doing the next time she asks for advice is to tell her that you've never been in her situation before and that you're not sure how you would handle it. if this doesn't work than i'm not sure what you should do. hope this helps.
Tell her not to ask for your advice if she doesn't like what you have to say.
Next time she even gets started just cut her off and tell her you don't want to get in the middle of her drama. Some people have to make the same mistakes repeatedly before they get enough and make a change. People like this will suck the life out of you and make you crazy.