Whether you are man or woman....if your significant other, met someone of the opposite sex at work and became friends and started hanging out would you or your spouse have a problem with that? Keep in mind that your spouse has you and the friend from work has a significant other as well! I ask this because my fiance has become friends with a girl from work who is MARRIED and i honestly don't have a problem with it, but my friends say that they would! Im just not a jelous person! I think its insecurity and i COMPLETELY trust him and ive met her and she's very very sweet! and we are all adults and i find that getting angry about something like this is high school crap! What are some opinions on this?I need advice on my relationship and Jelousy?
What your significant other is doing is irrelevant. What's driving you nuts is inside you, not outside. Jealousy is a sign of deep insecurity and the more you indulge it, the more it will drive your every relationship apart.
Find out where this insecurity comes from, learn to love yourself and the behaviour of others will no longer bother you.I need advice on my relationship and Jelousy?
It depends what you mean by ';hanging out';. If the relationship is completely open, it probably is not a problem. If things are done in secret, the probability of problems developing increase dramatically.
You are correct, jealousy is insecurity in yourself. It is not about the other person.
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