Need advice on my relationship?

Me and my partner and been having problems for so long now, my daughter is in grade one and me and her father constantly argue mainly because he whinges alot which i can't deal with. I sometimes work long hours and 7 days a week rostered shifts, can work from 10-13hrs a day 6 day a week, as for my partner well he doesnt really work he'll bring enough home to pay for his petrol to work and back and maybe his ciggarettes, as for me i am providing for all of us, and trying to maintain a healthy lifestyle for my child to live in. Well it's not easy to do when i am working and tired and i come home to a mess to clean up and even have to arrange dinner.


I want to leave work but how will the bills get paid and i can't depend on my so called partner to look after us he is so lazy, i don't want him here but i need him to drop her off at school, and pick her up when i can't. He nags constantly about going to another town and getting work but on his own and how he hates it where we live and wants to do seasonal work...he doesnt want a full-time job, i on the other hand am trying to save to buy a home and keep my child in one school and not move her around. It is so stressfull i don't know what to do, the teachers want me at the school and not her father because they feel he can't understand what they are trying to tell him, well as i said he is literally challenged...and i have to go to work, do house work and also attend to my daughter at school, and watch my partner bludge and sleep all day, work when he wants to, what do i do?...i can't find dayare suitible especially with the hours i work, im in australia QLD is there anyone who can help me to fugure out what i am doing wrong and any ideas.......Need advice on my relationship?
The one huge thing you are doing wrong is allowing the loser to stay with you and your child. Your child does not need to be exposed to all that drama. I had a similar problem but I found daycare that could accommodate my hours (even tho I had to drive across town for it). You could maybe talk around at work and maybe you and your coworkers can babysit each others kids on days off work. Even if you have to go out of your way to work and take care of your child, it is better than exposing an innocent child to all that. In this day and age, you may as well just realize that you will have to work to take care of you and your child. You should not ever really count on someone else to care for you. I know it is hard because I had to do it, but you will get through it just like I did using your own resources and intelligence. Get rid of the loser and tell the teacher's that you will call them on your break from work if you have to. I worked out lots of situations with teacher's and for the most part, they were helpful about working with me. I think your child's teacher should too and if you have a problem getting things worked out with a stubborn teacher, then go to the principal and ask their help. I know it won't be easy, but you can do it! Good luck!Need advice on my relationship?
None of this setup is working so it would be best if the two of you seek help. Tell him you are wearing thin and will look for other plans if this one does not change soon.