Relationship problems, need advice?

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 6 months and for the last few months we have been fighting almost everyday. He's 18, I'm 17. I try to sit down with him and talk to him let him know how i'm feeling, and i tell him to just be open with me and tell me whats on his mind. Every time I try that, he will blow up..like if if i think something may be bothering him, I ask him if anythings wrong and he will typically he will way overreact and say something like ';what the f*** nothings wrong, wtf is your problem'; or if I tell him something like ';I feel like we're falling apart, and you really dont seem to care if anything happened to us'; i'll say that very calmly and he'll come back with ';yeah, just think that'; For the first 5 months, everything was good, we could talk about things and understand each other,and he would cry with me. but lately it seems to me like he doesn't care at all. I started crying when we had gotten into a big argument and were on the edge of breaking up and he just starred blankly at me. And he used to tell me swwet things and when I ask him why things have changed and why he doesnt express his emotions to me anymore he said ';im sorry i cant think of anything to say anymore';





Also we could be laying together cuddling and he will randomly call me his ex girlfriends name and then start laughing, when i tell him to stop, i dont think its funny, he does it again and gets mad at me and says i cant take a joke.


and, a week or so ago, it was one of my good friends birthdays and she was just having a couple of girls over for a girls day, and my boyfriend me i could not go because he was worried her brother would show up and hit on me/ i have absolutley no attraction to her brother and never had, and would NEVER even consider cheating on him.. and then what really got me upset was that his best friends birthday was coming up and he told me '; I dont care what you say, i'm going out with mike for his birthday and getting drunk and totally trashed and dont care what you think'; But i had never objected to him going out with his friends. I trust that he wont cheat .





Also, he's told me he wants to quit argueing and trys to pin the blame on me. Im not saying its all him, but he doesnt see what he does. I so much for him,even its just little things, im trying to show him i care. like i will go watch him skateboard, not that im even the least bvit interested but i'll go to support him. And i feel he doesnt appreciate anything..





sorry it was long, im just having trouble dealing with these issuses, please , asdvice would be greatly appreciated.


also, he has bi-polar disorder, could this play a major part in his actions ?Relationship problems, need advice?
Whoa, if he's proven bi-polar then that has a lot to do with it. That is a hard ';trait'; to have let alone have a relationship with.





Looking at your age, perhaps you are in high school? Maybe on your way to college? If so then this time of year adds added stress to the situation. Perhaps you both are looking at the long term of what's been going on.





All couples have little arguements - its a given - but if you try to talk about it, and he's pushing you away or getting upset, then something isn't right with HIM. HE needs to take some time to figure HIMSELF out. But then we're back to the bipolar issue and he might not be able to.





My ex use to do this to me, but he wasn't bipolar. It does get old, and it does weigh on your heart, but honestly, just take some time, think hard and you might be better off leaving him alone. You're 17, you'll meet someone dashing and willing to communicate sooner than later.





Good luckRelationship problems, need advice?
ok well, you basicly have two options. dump his sorry *** in a heart beat hecause hes being a dick, or there is somethinig bothering him that might be private. try to comfort him and he might open up. he could not be telling you because he doesent want to drag you into a problem. As much as this this is probably going to hurt you - thses are also signs that he could be cheating on you. if everything was good for 5 months then he suddenly started being obnoxious and rude than he might feel like if he loses you its okay because he has somebody else. it could be anything but it might be that he is cheating on you. i strongly recomend dumping him. so you dont get hurt. but if meraculously he becomes the nicest guy in the world again. something is up. you need to find out.
Bi-Polar disorder can definitely be having an effect on him and by extension, you.





I'm sorry but as I was reading this I just kept having flashbacks to my last breakup. I was with a guy for 4 years and it was great in the beginning but then everything went sour. I would try my best to be calm and tell him what I was feeling. He would just instigate more unrest and treated me like I was stupid. (I graduated Summa *** laude btw and he failed outta college, twice.)





Sorry but I think the only real thing for you to do here is to walk away. I kept telling myself that ';things will get better, things can change.'; And let me tell you that they didn't then and never will. He is still being just as much of an a**hole slacker as he was before. You do not need this kind of treatment, cut the cord. He may think that you don't have the balls to leave him, my ex didn't think that about me. You HAVE to be stronger than him and just go; he is nothing but negativity.





I could honestly talk about this and this situation enough to fill a book. If you need someone to talk to give my email a shot and I'd be happy to talk to you. Hell I will give you my cell number. You need a third party's opinion and you probably need to vent and just talk about a lot of things.