I need advice on my relationship?

I was wondering if I should stay in my relationship. I am 28 he is 56. I have a 19 month old daughter with him. Things are pretty bad though. I stay at home and take care of my baby. He is not affectionate at all. He always says he is tired. He hardly talks to me. He never takes me anywhere. When I try to talk to him he says that I nag him and he is tired from working. He thinks that he has it hard because he works. I feel that he doesn't realize what it takes from you to take care of a 19 month old full time. I dont have any social life at all. I am expected to cook clean and to to parent full time. I feel I never get a break. He acts like it is a big deal to watch our child even while I take a shower. Like I said before I cant talk to him because when I try he ends up blowing up and calling me names. He's called me the b word at least five times. I dont know what to do. When we fight and I tell him I am going to leave he tells me to go ahead. Then the next day he acts like nothing happened so nothing ever gets resolved. I feel trapped because he works and makes the money. Hes told me before that if i leave him I'll end up with some loser guy on welfare. That that is the best I will get. I don't want to take his daughter away from him but I am so so unhappy and I dont see things changing.I need advice on my relationship?
Why in gods hell would you marry somoeone so much older then you?I need advice on my relationship?
Well i'm very young but I could try to help you lol :).


I've been through what you don't want your baby going through. But pretty soon hes going to end up trying to hurt you or something. My mom was through the same thing you went through finally she got away and found a babysitter and got her a job until she could provide. I don't think anyone deserves to even be called a B****.! You shouldn't have to give up everything just because he doesn't want anything to do with you or the baby he should grow up and act like a man. I hope this helped but my mother has went through it so i hope you make a safe and thoughtful decision .
I think it's really important that you get out of this relationship as soon as possible. If he cared about you then he wouldn't be showing it like this. And it really wouldn't be helpful to raise your daughter in the kind of atmosphere he's creating, he could even be detrimental later. It would be better for you and your daughter to find somewhere else to stay and maybe turn to your family for support during your obviously difficult time.