My g/f and I have recently seperated. She moved back to the the city where we came from and is now closer to her family and has a good job. She left due to a variety of reasons. Basically, I have been a terrible b/f to her. I took her for granted, lied to her numerous times, never listened to what she would tell me, and basically broke her heart. Since she has left, I have been devestated. I feel like I have lost my best friend. I terribly regret the things I have done, and want to do everything in my power to show her I recognize the things I have done were wrong. I believe that her leaving has changed who I am and how I think and I am confident I can be that person she needs me to be. Is it too late? Or has there been too much damage done?Relationship problem...need advice?
Awww. I can totally feel your hurt.
Call her (if she still talks to you) and see if you two can get together. If she agrees then go to a private place and let her know how you feel.
Isn't it crazy that you don't know how much you love a person until they are gone?
You might have to start things slow... let her know you will always be there for her... SHOW her you have changed and now you know you have to appreciate her.Relationship problem...need advice?
Long-distance relationship's are hard on both. You would have to do a hell of a lot to be able to get her back. Women are very sensitive about the smallest things you do. For example: She gets her hair all done up and you don't notice. Or she's in a bad mood and you ask her what's wrong and she says nothing; that's your Que to say ';No, really, what's bothering you babe?'; It's a man's dream to be able to read a woman's mind. But we cope without it.
it depends on how many chances the relationship has had. if this is the first then call her up and ask her if she whould be intrested in giving it another chance for a trial period. explain what you've been feeling and that you're willing to work on yourself for the good of the realtionship.
Well I think you should move on and forget about it. Just say you are really sorry on the phone or something but don't go too far. It might not work out so well. Go out with another girl and be kind, don't lie., take her out to places, have suprises for her or anything like that. Well, I tried my best to help you so.. Good luck!!!
You have heard the saying I'm sure ';Where there's a will there's a way'; I would go in person and tell her the the same things you just said. Good luck!
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