Need Advice 4 Young Relationship? What do i do with this guy?

I have this boyfriend for a good 3-4 months and we love each other, but there are problems. I am only 16, a very attractive girl(not trying to be vain), loves to have fun and experience new things and inthe future I plan on becoming a lawyer. My boyfriend is 18 and not so hot and someone i would have never wanted to get with and plans on being a welder but I know he loves me for me(flaws and all). He is so nice and will go out of his way to do anything for me. He says that he wants to get married in the future and have all these kids and things and I told him the same thing because he is a great guy but I kinda felt rushed into everything. I still love him as much as i did before but the interest is not there anymore and i dont feel the same. I just recently started talking this other guy the side and i really like him. He makes me smile, blush, and laugh. Should I take a break from my bf or what? I'm so confused i dont know what to decide on?!Need Advice 4 Young Relationship? What do i do with this guy?
you gotta go with what your heart tells you. Don't force yourself to stay with someone you lost interest in and don't stay in a relationship with someone you don't feel the same way towards now, versus how you felt about him in the first place. You said it yourself, and that ought to be what tells you to move on, tell your current boyfriend it's not working out, and pursue this new guy you're talking about. A relationship should be about utmost happiness on both parts...both people should feel completely happy about their partners, and if that spark is just not there, why should you stay in that relationship? And don't be staying in it just for him, you have to do what you think is right and best for yourself. If things don't work out with this new guy you're talking to, the least you can do is say you tried. And also if it doesn't work out, don't be sad knowing you don't have this other guy anymore. It's just not worth being in a relationship with someone you don't have complete love and feelings for.Need Advice 4 Young Relationship? What do i do with this guy?
Hi!! You're 16, trust me when I tell you that a pretty, ambitious girl like yourself has a whole lotta life to live. Its cool that you have a nice, caring boyfriend but don't stay with him just because he's nice. You can (and WILL) meet many more guys (especially if you go to college then law school!!) who are nice and good to you, and you'll likely be unhappy if you settled right now. If you're not madly in love with him then yes, I think you should do him and yourself a favor and break it off. Breaking up will always suck but if he's talking marriage/kids, he's in a different league than you. If you don't want the same, it's time to bounce.





I know this is cliche but ENJOY your youth! Date date date until you find the ONE. If you find him at 18, cool. If you find him at 28 (like me), cool. If you find him at 38, cool! NEVER NEVER settle for anything less than the best guy for you. :)