Relationship help! Any advice?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. When we first started dating, he was the sweetest, most caring guy I've ever met. Now he's extremely insensitive and doesn't really care about anything. I want the ';old'; him back. I've tried to talk to him about it, and he says the ';old'; him has died. I don't believe that though. There must be something I can do to get the guy I love back into my life. Any positive advice?Relationship help! Any advice?
if he says the 'old' him has died, it sounds like he doesn't like the person he was... maybe he's been influenced by his friends, or maybe he felt that being so sweet meant people started taking advantage of him... i suspect this may be the root of the problem, talk to him about why he doesnt want to be the guy he used to be and he may tell you more than he's telling you now





good luck!Relationship help! Any advice?
The fact here is that you notice a change, and from the statement that he made (the old him has died) it is obvious that he is aware of the change. If you have explained to him how his actions make you feel there is nothing more you can do. As much as we would like to change people the reality is we can't. So now you must determine if the bad in your relationship outweighs the good. If it does then you must decide what you want to do. No one on this board can give you that advice because that is a choice that has to be strictly made for you, because at the end of the day you will be the one effected by the decision. Not any of us on Y/A. Whatever you decide I wish you the best. You deserve pure happiness, anything less is out of your league.
He played you. He acted nice to get some now he doesn't have to be nice to you. He won. Game over sorry, but it doesn't have to be... re-improve your self into a sexy woman and every guy including him will never disrespect you.
ma'am.. i dunno if there is any.. my dad is that way. he was nice to my mum then after they got married he turned into a bastard. the most i can say is that try telling him that your not in love with the new him and he needs to try to bring back the old him if he really loves you. hope i have helped even if its a little ^_^
I'm having the same problem only thing you have to do is show him you care and change yourself and stated doing thing out the blue be spontaneous and he'll stated changing his ways and how he act hey its working for me
Nothing terribly positive, I'm afraid. If he truly feels he's not who he was enough to say that the guy you were dating is ';dead,'; then the odds of him putting in the work needed to become a guy you'll like enough to replace the old one (because let's face it, no one stays exactly the same throughout the course of a relationship) are very, very small. If he seems not to be caring about anything and makes bleak pronouncements about his life, it's possible he's depressed, but even then he needs to be the one who decides to change things. The question is how long you're willing to wait for that, and how much support and encouragement you can offer without getting frustrated if he doesn't take you up on it - assuming he's willing to stick around and isn't trying to push you away.
Has anything happened in his life that would change his personality like that.. I just find it strange that he has said the old him has died.. Why??
say you need some time apart, no contact no matter how hard. he'll probably come running back. if he doesnt he isnt worth it.
If he is no longer the guy that you love...move on. He doesn't even sound like he's willing o give at all. Something has happened to change him and i may or may not be you. The thing is, if you continue to tolerate this attitude when you are unhappy you are compromising who you are. Don't put yourself on the back burner! Stand up and say what you mean and mean what you say.