ADVICE ON CURRENT RELATIONSHIP?

I HAVE BEEN GOING OUT WITH A GIRL FOR LIKE 4 MONTHS NOW. AND NEXT WK WILL BE HER FIRST TIME STARTING COLLEGE. I SUPPORT HER GOING TO SCHOOL 100% BECAUSE I WENT TO COLLEGE MYSELF. WE LOVE EACH OTHER VERY MUCH BUT SHE IS STRESSING ABOUT HER WORK AND SCHOOL SCHEDULE. SHE WORKS FULL TIME DURING THE DAY AND WILL STUDY AT NIGHT. HER PROBLEM IS THAT SHE THINKS THAT SHE WILL NOT BE ABLE TO HANDLE NOT SEEING ME.





I TOLD HER THAT I UNDERSTAND IF I CANT SEE HER DURING THE WEEK. I EVEN ASKED HER IF SHE WANTED TO BREAK UP. SHE SAID NO. SHE BELIEVES THAT THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE IN THE WAY AND I TOLD HER THAT SHE SHOULDNT LET IT BE. AFTER ALL ALOT OF COUPLES GO TO SCHOOL AND THEY STILL MAKE IT.





I AM REALLY COMMITTED INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP AND I TOLD HER THAT I WANT A FUTURE WITH HER. SHE SAID THAT SHE NEEDS TO SEE HOW THE SCHOOL SITUATION GOES.





SHOULD WE SEPARATE UNTIL SHE FIGURES OUT WHAT SHE WANTS? I JUST WANT HER TO BE HAPPY. AND AS MUCH AS IT WOULD TO LET HER GO, I KNOW THAT SHE WONT BE HAPPY BECAUSE I WONT BE BY HER SIDE.ADVICE ON CURRENT RELATIONSHIP?
try it and see how it works.


you can always break up in the future if it's not working out.





sounds like speculation, and a bit of anxiety from the both of you.





stop creating problems were there are none, and i mean that for the both of you.





if you love each other, than the only question is, how are we going to make this work? breaking up should be out of the question.





see how it goes, if all fails jump ship!!


good luck hope this helps.ADVICE ON CURRENT RELATIONSHIP?
School can be stressful. Give her the space that she needs in order to obtain the knowledge that she seeks. Prepare yourself that she may move on but in fairness to both of you let her go and if it is meant to be she will come back to you. If not life goes on. There will be someone designed just for you and when you find each other you will know it.
Dump her, u need to get out of that relashionship. It might hurt at first, but u will b happy u did it. U need to learn to let go
Back off a bit now and let her contact you
So, if I understand right, your motivation for ending the relationship would be because she's under stress and you don't want to add to that? Because breaking up with her would calm her down? I don't follow that logic.





You asked her if she wanted to break up and she said no. Both of you know there will be less time spent together, she's willing to go with that and you're still talking about ending the relationship ';for her own good?';





You know, just about every time someone has done something ';for my own good'; I've been pretty upset about it. Just saying. You asked, she answered. You need to accept that.





I know you say you love her and are willing to fight for her or whatever... good, I guess, but there's something about this that sounds like you want to end the relationship because you won't be spending time with her, not because it would be good for her. That's how I would take it if I were her and you broke up with me.