Advice on a relationship going bad?

my g/f and i have not been on good terms latly at all. we have only been together about 2 months but before that we were together for nearly a year. we broke up for about 4 months and things were total hell between us. we hated eachother and nothing seemed to make it better until i got a new g/f and she ammediatly wanted me back. so we ended up back together but things are misserable. we both want this relationship to work out but i have no idea how to make things work. can anyone think of a way that could make things better? i dont know what to do i want to be able to talk to her today and make things better but she is so moody and that is one of our biggest problems. also she doesnt like that i smoke which brings problems. she thinks that sex just gives us so many problems and that if we do it less things will get better. i dont understand that at all and no matter what that doesnt change but if someone can agree with her and tell me how i can stop that. just any advice please.Advice on a relationship going bad?
This relationship seems to have gone from bad to worse. You used the word hate. Hate is a strong word. How do you hate someone one minute, and next minute wanting to work it out? It sounds like desperation on both parts. She doesn't like your smoking either. Did she ever like it? Or is this something new? Don't let her change that because you want to please her. Do it because it's best for you. You may really hate her, if you do it for her.


If she didn't mind it before, she shouldn't mind it now.


As for making it better? I honestly think breaking it off is the best thing. I'm sorry, but from what you have said, I don't see this going anywhere. If you want to keep giving it a try, I hope it all works it. But, there are others out there who you might get along with better.


I hope everything works out for you.Advice on a relationship going bad?
Compromise and communication. Try finding a middle ground on your problems and stick to it. Also, find out why she is so moody and try to be a support system or find a solution. It just sounds like ya'll need a nice long talk...if this doesn't work...sometimes you just can't force relationships to work out.
You need to have a heart to heart talk to her and find a solution to your problems.Open communication is very relevant to couples. Now if things still don't work out...I guess it's time to move on. Don't stick in a relationship if it brings nothing but trouble, it will not grow.