Saturday, December 19, 2009

Advice on new relationship?

what are some good ways to get acclimated to a new relationship? unfortunately....both of us have busy lives so we're trying to see each other twice a week. considering i don't know him THAT well, and we don't have THAT much time to spend together, what are some quality things we can do to get to know each other well. also, one difference i've noticed between the two of us is our idea of what role 'friends' should play in a relationship. he seems to want me to hang out with his 'gang' and i REALLY want alone time. i want to be able to focus all my attention on HIM without worrying about socializing with new people. though i plan to eventually introduce him to my close friends....i like to keep hanging with friends separate from spending time with a boyfriend....he seems to enjoy having everyone together? thoughts or advice on this?Advice on new relationship?
Typical young person problem. Everyone has friends and likes to socialize with them. That includes bringing other new friends (interests) into the group realm. As your relationship gets more serious, you will find that those friends will become less important, quality time between you and your boy friend will improve and become longer by mutual consent.


Time solves this type of problem unless you push for an early resolution which may or may not work to your advantage.Advice on new relationship?
Having dinner together is a good time to discuss many things. You can even make a casual dinner together at your (or his) house, and talk about things while you cook. It's a great way to bond while doing something creative. It doesn't even have to be fancy -- spaghetti, salad and garlic bread are easy to make and will give you plenty of time to chat before, during and after the meal. If you prefer going out, make sure it's not in a noisy restaurant, so you can hear each other talk. Best of luck!
I think the only reason for him wanting to hang out with his gang is becuase he is nervous or shy around you... which means he really likes you. I would be al ittle more forceful and say you want to spend some time alone wiht him.; Some men just need that lil push..





Go to the cinema.. go for a walk... go bowling ..anything as long as tis just the two of y9ou.. Good luck.. xx
dont make him blow off his friends thats for sure because then they will be mad at him which will make him mad at you and go and meet his friends... get in good with them but tell him that you want time just with him but u also dont mind chillin wit him and his friends once in a while... then the rest will work its self out
you have it right keep friends out of your relationship as much as possible. I always found that if there is something you both like to do do it. It is the best way to get to know someone.
It's not going to last if you just want him to hang around you and your friends and not wanting to hang around him and his friends. That's being selfish on your part.
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talk it out
thats just how us guys are... we like hanging out... no matter with who... you, our friends, your friends, all together...

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