Advice on a relationship?

i've been seeing this guy for 4 months... when i got to know him he was single - having come out of a 5 year relationship... only three weeks ago he got back with her claiming they are giving it 'one last shot' for old times sake! he still comes to see me almost everyday and hugs and kisses me when he does... i know it seems as though he's a player but when he speaks to me he says he's finding it hard to let go of her after so long. i have tried walking away from him 3 times now but he always comes looking for me via friends, emailing me or calling my workplace... he knows i feel strongly about him and he says he would not marry his long term girlfriend but at the same time does not know how to let go of her... can someone advise me as to what to do?Advice on a relationship?
Why would you want to be with a guy who's still hung up on someone else?





Tell him if he wants to date you, he's with YOU, nobody else.





If that's not acceptable to him, dump him, regardless of what he says.








Luck





There is no ';what if'; it's WHEN he hurts you.


Don't walk........RUN! He may not ';seem'; to be a player, that just means he's better at it than you're used to. He will rip your heart out and feed it into a blender, because he ';cares'; for you!


You say he ';won't let go'; of you...., REFUSE ANY CONTACT WITH HIM!!!!Advice on a relationship?
give him an ultimatum. say ';i do really enjoy your company and have feelings for you, but i can not sit by and be that #2 girl. you need to decide who exactly you want to be with.'; if he chooses you, he cant see her, and if he chooses her, hes with you, if he goes back to her dont give him another chance unless its been a while, and he proves he hasnt been with her in quite a while.





dont continue with his charades. it will just hurt you, and hold you back.
If you like him sweety then talk to him tell him how you feel and then see what he has to say about it, but put it this way if him and his other girl didnt work out before then what makes you think it will work out this time.


But the way i see it is that if it feel right when your with him then you already have the anwsers.


:-)
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Read this. Then walk away. He's made his choice. You are the throw back, she is the keeper (in fishing terms).