Some Advice on my relationship?

My fiancee is a total sweetheart and I love him, but sometimes I feel like he gets upset if something seems wrong. For ex just yesterday, we went to hang out w/ his friends. I kind of felt sick and wanted to go home and lie down for a bit since I had to go into work that night. When I told him I felt sick and was going home a bit to rest, he got mad at me, and said I should just ';suck it up'; and deal. I stayed for a couple of more minutes, but I got worse and told him so. he got mad again claiming that if I went home he would be stuck w/ no one to take him home. I rested and took him home, but I felt like he was not concerned about my health at all. The majority of the time he is a gentleman to me, but sometimes he will go through one of those phases? What should I do? I want to tell him not to rely on me all the time w/ o hurting his feelings, and that I would just like the ocasional saturday to myself? I am so confusedSome Advice on my relationship?
I'd suggest that you watch him very carefully. It sounds like he wants you to follow his way, not caring you as much as he thinks what his 1st priority is. If his priority is what is around him, you become his peripherals eventually, and that's not what you want to be.Some Advice on my relationship?
he's a total sweetheart until you want to put your needs ahead of his and then he morphs into a jackass





Guess what he's not going to change, he will feel the same way about any kids you have and he is a tool





Call off the engagement now.
Sometimes he just wants to hang out with his friends and have his own guy things. Honestly, I don't think that he wanted you to come w/ in the first place!





But, if he is clingy then that is an issue.


You have to deal w/ this by yourself, honestly, I don't know you OR your fiancee, so you honestly have to deal w/ it yourself.
Why does he need someone to take HIM home--because he's planning on being too drunk to drive? Um, can you say Alcoholic???





My husband and I went to a wedding of one of his friends a couple years ago, and right after dinner I started to feel sick. I felt horrible asking him to leave early, so I went out to the car and laid down. He came out to check on me about 15 minutes later and I still wasn't feeling any better. I asked him to take me home and he did. I told him if he wanted to go back to the reception I didn't mind, but he said no, he was fine and stayed home with me. THAT is a guy who is sweetheart.





I agree with the person who posted first--he's probably really easy to live with as long as he's getting his way. As soon as he has to compromise or do something that he doesn't want to do, he turns into what you witnessed last night.