Saturday, December 19, 2009

Need some advice with my relationship?

My GF and I have been together for almost four months, and I can honestly say that these past four months have been fantastic. She has become my best friend and I love her dearly. She tells me that she loves me, and that I mean the world to her. The only problem is, is lately she has been so snappy with me. I try to do a lot for her, i.e. always going to the store for her, and always taking her to and from work. I sometimes feel that she may not recognize all I try and do for her, because she is so quick to be snappy about little meaningless things. Can anyone offer some advice?Need some advice with my relationship?
It sounds like she is frustrated in the relationship. Back off and give her some space. The space is what she needs to not feel smothered. Continue to tell her that you love her, but try to be around her less and not talk to her as much. She is probably just going through a stressful time and needs time for herself. Good luck.Need some advice with my relationship?
she is a control freak
tell her before its to late....you should tell her that you don't like that about her and that your telling her cause you don't want the relationship to stop for something stupid
You might want to talk to her about this, but only with her permission. You could tell her something very similar to what you've written.


It's quite possible that something else is bothering her and she's taking it out on you. It might not be about you.


Also, she may not recognize how you are trying to express your love for her. I recommend the book ';The Five Love Languages'; by Chapman. You and your girlfriend might want to read it together.





And please get married if you are going to continue living together. (I assume you're living together by the kinds of things that you've been doing for her.)
4 months maybe a long time for a relationship for her so give her some space...lay off for a while and see what her reaction is or you could try doing something really romantic like something that wouldblow her away!
Well what are the reasons she's snapping at you? There has to be a reason. She can't snap outta nowhere...





Sometimes my boyfriend does things that upset me. It's only natural. And at the same time, I appreciate all he does for me.





Tell her why she acts that way. So then, maybe you can stop doing the things that cause her to get upset at you... and that maybe she can try to stop snapping as much. It's all about compromise.

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